Embracing the Nursery time: A Journey of Love, Learning and Trust

Don't go Mum

I am Katie, and I run Katies Kids Kitchen, we are based in Shrewsbury and we would love to help you celebrate your little ones'special day.

Embarking on the journey of early nursery years can be both daunting and emotional for parents / caregivers and children alike. The initial days often feel incredibly long as caregivers find themselves clock-watching, worried about whether their little ones have eaten, how their midday sleep happen without their familiar comforts, and who will be there to kiss away their tears. For children, there's a world of wonder mixed with confusion: When will their caregiver return? Why have they been left behind? Is this their new home? The anxiety stemming from the unknown can be overwhelming for both parties.

However, within just a few days, drop-offs become easier. The stress begins to diminish, tears are replaced by smiles, and everyone starts to feel reassured. As a parent, I’ve experienced that longing to stay home with my children, not wanting anyone else to care for them. I remember those tearful drives to work, my heart heavy as I left my boys. At the end of the day, they would often be tired and tearful.

My immediate focus would be bathing and cuddling them, packing another bag of clothes while sorting through the previous day's dirty laundry, and reading notes about needing more nappies the next day. It felt relentless, and all I yearned for was to stop working, scoop my boys up, and care for them forever. But then I faced the realities of mortgage payments, bills, food, and life expenses.

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I quickly realised that nursery was a special place filled with individuals who genuinely loved children. They shared in the joy of my boys just as much as I did. I was amazed at how much independence and skills they developed—often surprising us daily. They made wonderful friends, and the attentive staff took great care of them, keeping us informed about their daily achievements. Even when we weren’t there, we felt included in their day-to-day experiences; we knew what they ate, when they slept, and what toys they played with. We were also informed when things didn’t go so well, such as times they hadn’t shared or been kind, along with how those situations were handled. I trusted the nursery staff to help raise my boys as part of our extended family.

The early years are undeniably the most crucial in laying the foundation for a child’s journey of love, learning, and laughter. When selecting a nursery for your child, consider these essential tips:

1. Visit at least three nurseries: It’s important to get a sense of different environments and find the right fit.

2. Spend quality time with the manager, director, or early years educator: This interaction will help you gauge the nursery’s approach and values.

3. Prepare a list of questions: This will ensure all your concerns are addressed and you leave with a clear understanding.

4. Enjoy your visit: Pay attention to how the nursery feels; your instinct will guide you in choosing the right one.

5. Secure your place early: Aim to do this at least 12 months in advance, as good nurseries fill up quickly.

   
   

Taking these steps alleviates one worry from your mind, allowing you to enjoy your time off and maternity leave fully. It’s natural for mothers to feel guilty; we never truly stop caring! My boys are grown men now, yet that feeling lingers.

Remember, your children are loved and cared for by exceptional early years educators who will become a significant part of your extended family.

Good luck on this incredible journey!

I started this journey as a young mum - now I run a Nursery and host Cooking Parties, both for fun and education. Learn About me and my journet here.